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Monday, January 30, 2012

Abusers unaware of victims' attack!

One of the most difficult challenges abused and battered women face, other than the courage to leave a bad relationship, is how to defend themselves.  Now there is a way to defend themselves and their children, and to change the behaviour of the abuser, as well.  The humorous part is, the aggressors don't even know what "hit" them!


The challenge began when a lecture attendee was afraid to burn candles, do clearings, or move furniture in her home, because her husband was suspicious that she was doing something against him any time she deviated from the patterns he had settled into.

The solution was simple, but very powerful.  She began bathing in lavender rich tub before retiring at night.  The result was 8-10 hours a night of relaxing, peaceful aromatherapy for the threatening, sleeping partner. 

A transformation in attitude and personality was noticed almost immediately.  In less than a week, the woman called to tell me her husband had never been as rational or soft spoken in their entire relationship!


Another success story is told by a concerned mother.  She was in LA from Arizona when I did a consultation in her sister's home in Ontario, CA.  She asked if there was anything she could do about the behaviour of her two sons that she was visiting.  She told of verbal and physical fighting that took place between her two grown boys every time she came to visit.  Several times, she said, they would end up in bloody fist fights or wrecked cars because of their tantrums.

A remedy that could be maintained and befitting two macho men was the difficult challenge.  Lavender air freshener seemed the best solution.  She purchased several cans on her way back to their apartment that evening and immediately started the "attack".  (Mothers are always cleaning their kids' houses when they go to visit so this was not something strange to them.)

Well, it worked!! Not only was there peace the rest of that visit, two years ago, but there has not been a problem since.  She leaves several cans in the bathroom before she leaves and replaces the empties when she returns.

Any good lavender soup, bath oil, lotion or spray should work.  I recommend THE BODY SHOP's  Divine Calm Relaxing Massage Oil.  http://www.thebodyshop-usa.com/body-products/massage-products/divine-calm-relaxing-massage-oil.aspx    It has lavender and an abundance of other scents that create peace and a wonderful night's sleep.  I have been using it with clients and personally for many years.  It is wonderful even after several changes in formula.  It is also great to use on ADD, ADDHD, Autistic children and other young ones that are empaths or just under a lot of stress.

May Peace be with each of you and your loved ones!!!

Friday, January 27, 2012

Silence is Golden: Indigos, Autistic Children and Their Environments

 Written in 2002 but content is still current


I know I can, I know I can, I know I can.  For two weeks I have chanted, in one form or another, this affirmation.  I knew I could write the next two articles on environmental contamination despite the inner Silence that I entered into when my pen went to paper.

This morning I asked myself what the block was.  I immediately knew I have reached a point in my journey where Silence has become my most precious blessing.  The rare, scarce, joy of Silence has become my most coveted prize and possession.

Living in Southern California and traveling constantly I came to the realization I have unconsciously been on a quest to satisfy my obsession for this intangible, elusive luxury.  I speak of it here as a luxury, however, I know it is as necessary for the survival of mankind as food and water.

As a mass culture, we have polluted our water and food, pushing us to accept inferior quality to support our sacred body temples.  Much like buying zircons instead of diamonds, or electroplate instead of gold, those of us on the search gratefully relish quasi-quiet as a substitute for the true jewel of Silence.

In the joyful reunion with Silence we hear the song of Spirit.  We can hear our own song.  We can hear the song of the One.  Through Silence we reconnect with the ultimate vibration of the Universe.  Yet, it seems out of our reach.

Is it any wonder our planet is unraveling and frayed at the ends?  In Southern California, the closest thing to quiet I can find is in the Barnes and Noble.  What a sad state of affairs!

As we unplug our children and ourselves from the toxic electromagnetic environments, we must unplug from outside noise.  Side effects are common during the detoxification process, especially for the children born into this audio madness.  Hysteria, crying, anger, and hostility are the most immediate reactions that manifest when TVs, stereos, computers, phones and iPods are turned off.  Restlessness, inability to fall asleep, lack of focus and nervousness accompany the first several weeks of withdrawal.  Feelings of being lost, unconnected with life and fear of the unknown can persist for months.

Children and teens, more often than not, will react with rage, verbal threats, and abuse.  Tantrums and confrontations are to be expected.  During the initial stages of release, parents' strength, courage, determination and love will be tested to the highest level.  The separation of noise and humans can be even more devastating to adults than to the young.  Our addiction, denial and protective defenses have been cemented into every cell of our body for many years.  The stronghold is not easy to disarm, but the rewards can, literally, be eternal.

The World Health Organization is even aware of the physical, mental, and spiritual devastation noise contamination has on humans.  They had a task force working on the affects of noise pollution.  They have several papers on occupational and community noise. There is an interesting one out of Europe http://www.who.int/quantifying_ehimpacts/publications/e94888/en/   Previously there was one out of the United States, however, it has been taken off the site except in other languages. They also have an amazing project geared to educate professionals working to help protect children against noise pollution.  http://www.who.int/ceh/capacity/noise.pdf  These papers do not even start to approach the public bombardment of Muzak, televisions, and teleprompters we cannot escape in stores, restaurants, filling stations, even doctor's offices and hospitals, or merely sitting at red lights.... but it is a great start. 

In my feng shui practice I strive to create harmony between environments and people.  Attempts to go "cold turkey" from media devices are never well accepted by my clients.  I have found, however, an amazing compromise.  I have never seen this adjustment fail to alter family relationships and attitudes.

I have my clients play high vibration (vibration not in the sense of higher bass or tweeters) music in the common living areas of their homes.  Family rooms and kitchens are the main focus.  High vibration music includes: classical, new age, even whale and dolphin sounds.  Research has found that autistic children are soothed and respond positively to the whale and dolphin sounds.  Optimum success is achieved by playing these compositions all day while most people are at work or school..  These sound patterns literally heighten the vibrations of the home, creating a more inviting place to come home to and live in.  (In offices this schedule can be reversed and play can be done overnight.)

For years I have witnessed teens leaving their own music to "hang out" more in the kitchen and family room after this treatment.  They don't know why they gravitate to these areas.  They say, "It just feels good".  Even if the prescribed music is turned off upon arrival, the clearing is effective for hours....or at least until the television is turned on and alters the effect.  Ultimately, the environment will keep this vibration as a standard.

An excellent reference book for sound therapy is Music Therapy for Non-Musicians by Ted Andrews.  His work with the effects of different kinds of music on our physical and mental bodies can help us all begin this transformation of change with very little effort.

The revolutionary findings of Dr. Masaru Emoto on the molecular changes sound and written word have on water crystals confirms our environment can alter us on all levels.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tAvzsjcBtx8

As parents, we are challenged with setting boundaries and being good role models for our children.  If Silence unnerves us to a point of fear or uneasiness, then the least we can do is alter the frequency of the sound we surround ourselves with at home, office and automobile.  I guarantee after practicing these principles for two weeks, you will witness a difference in family life.  After six months, a new family paradigm can be in place.


http://www.ocweekly.com/2002-08-29/features/the-feng-shui-psychic/

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Indigos, Autistic Children and the World They Live In

When I was asked, 10 years ago, to write about my experiences with autistic children, I didn't feel qualified.  My experience with the autistic was very limited.  However, after I thought "out of the box" and saw these beautiful Souls as "Indigos", my perspective broadened.

Long before the term Indigo Children was spoken, I was waist high in the challenges and joys these children can bring.  In 1980, as a young mother, I realized my daughter was not normal.  At four months old she was performing, according to Parent Magazine, on a 1-year-old level.  At 1 1/2 years old I was dealing with a quasi 6-year-old.  By the time she was 2 1/2 I needed some answers fast!  I quietly, without the knowledge of my husband or closest friend, started researching gifted children.  I did not want to be ridiculed because I thought my daughter might be "special".  There finally came a time, close to her third birthday, I sought professional help.  (Writing these words makes me laugh even now)  Testing was, of course, suggested and needless to say she was off the charts.

At this same time, I was blessed with another "early" Indigo.  This beautiful daughter was the yin side of her older sister's yang personality.  She uses her balanced heart and right brain to create peace out of chaos and turmoil.  My second angel embodies the peacekeeping Libra Goddess.  Unlike her sister's left brain/ analytical style, Ms. Libras chooses the arts to bring the New World through its birthing process.

My Indigos, gifts from the Gods, were my subtle torment, but very much my salvation.  As a single mother with two children under the age of three I needed help.  I also needed to learn a lot about life.  I did not know immediately, but soon learned, "When the student is ready, the teacher(s) appear".  To this day, much like Jiminy Cricket on my shoulder, their words of knowledge and observations of my darkside, bring me to attention as I occasionally slip into old patterns and beliefs.

This was my basic training for my later exposure and work with these mystifying humans.  The range of personalities, emotions, and experiences is like the pendulum on a huge clock.  On the right swing, you can know the highest joy.  On the left swing, you get the deepest sorrow.  Right swing, love.  Left swing, fear.  Hyperactive/Comatose, Spiritual/Atheist, Passive/Aggressive, Egotistical/Worthless, Communicative/Autistic.  If you don't understand the new generation, take a step back and you will see they are the ALL.  They represent the unification of ALL THAT IS.

Years ago, as an architectural interior designer, I was intuitive enough to realize children's environments played an important part in their development.  I saw children who had their room designed by loving parents, search out other avenues of expressing their individuality.  These children would, more often than not, spend time away from home.  They preferred to spend their time at friends' homes, libraries, or the local malls.  I discovered children who played an active role in choosing the elements for their "sacred space" would not only spend more time there, but their space was often the hangout for the kids who wanted to escape their own rooms.
Over the years, my journey led me to pioneer the awakening of feng shui to the Western World.  My understandings and intuitive connection with environmental energies opened doors for me to assist the blossoming of young hearts and minds.  As these children are allowed to open more freely, their parents and teachers find harmony and joy replacing struggles and discord.

In the next three blogs I will list some of the basic environmental conditions that can adversely affect, not only Indigo and autistic children, but all of us.  Some of the topics we will look at include:

I.     Electromagnetic fields
II     Color and patterns
III.   Geopathic stress and magnetic fields
IV.   The location of children's room in the home
V.    Noise and music

                                                                
The greatest environmental toxin our culture is currently exposed to is the inescapable electromagnetic fields generated everywhere we go.  Our society is bombarded with the luxury of the quick, fast, economical fuel of the times.  What is the unseen cost, however?

I have worked for several years with children and adults with ADD/ADDHD.  There is no coincidence the emergence of these disorders coincides with the acquisition of personal computers, video games, multiple televisions per household, cell phones, microwave ovens, IPods, etc.  We have literally "plugged" ourselves into electrical overload!  We wonder why we are buzzing with hyperactivity and lack of focus.  My answer is "DUH!"  In my practice of environmental healing and clearing, miracles literally manifest when we unplug, especially sensitive children, and allow our bodies to rebalance and heal from electrical shock.

I continue to be amazed when I walk into children's rooms that contain equipment such as computers, stereos, televisions, video games, clock radios, and more.  My clients often complain their children are either lethargic or hyperactive, usually the latter.  Often, when I suggest the simple remedy for most of these physical and mental complaints is to remove these devices, the parents are afraid to take the stand and confront the foe, even if it means a better life for all.  I must, at that point, remember we all have free will and I can only make suggestions based on my professional expertise.  If they want to have their children on drugs and bouncing off walls, that is their choice.

A few years ago, I was referred by a pediatrician to perform some energy healing on an autistic child.  Billy, not his real name, underwent serious back surgery the first of that year, and had just broken his upper arm.  The break required two steel rods to heal the fracture.  The doctor called me hoping the energy work would accelerate the healing process.

When I arrived at Billy's home I immediately began to "feel" and see the AMP's he was surrounded by.  In the room where he spends most of his day, there was a big screen TV.  (More like a theater screen than TV).  There was the usual stereo, light fixtures, etc. in the same room.  Upon my request, I was allowed to examine the rest of the home.  Billy's bedroom was adjacent to the wall where the big screen TV was located.  Billy's bed was located where his head was against an outside wall where the main electrical lines for the house come in directly above his head.  This arrangement was only the beginning.  Within a couple of hundred feet of this outside wall, there was a very busy California highway and high line electrical poles, easily exposing Billy through the window directly above his crown chakra.

I pointed these strong influences out to the parents and suggested they might try relocating Billy's bed, or better yet, get a smaller television and relocating the electrical boxes.  They quickly admitted that it seemed to make sense, but the thought of giving up the big screen TV was more than they were willing to entertain.  It just wasn't going to happen, no way no how.  Not even if it meant that Billy could benefit from the adjustments.

A couple of days later, I received another call from Billy's doctor.  The steel rods holding Billy's bones together inside the cast had mysteriously twisted drastically, requiring another surgery to correct the arm.  This time, the surgeon put in titanium rods instead of steel.  The perplexing thing to all the doctors was "How on earth did the frail child twist those steel rods in his arm while in the cast?"  I think I have a possible answer, however the doctors are not in a position to consider anything this progressive.

Perhaps, just perhaps, could the magnetics generated in Billy's environment have created a vortex strong enough to magnetize the steel rods in Billy's arm and twist them, even in the cast?  Referencing some of Dan Winter's work on magnetics, geopathic stress and vortexes, I believe it is possible. Dan Winter did extensive studies on electromagnetic fields and magnetics in the 1980's.  His work with geopathic stress and ley lines also coordinates the formation of vortexes and the affects it has on our bodies.  IF, just IF, these unseen forces can literally bend steel rods attached to bone within a firm casting, what could these forces be doing to the rest of our bodies?  Scoliosis, MS, ADD, who knows what else?  By the way, the titanium rods have did not shift.

As we continue, in the forthcoming blogs, to explore the human/environment connection, I hope that we pay particular attention to the needs of our children.  For the most part, I believe that we need to ask the young what they need and want in terms of their environment.  I have found that they will know the exact color they need in their rooms for their comfort, joy and well being.  My stance on color and design is to let them direct the course of their development.  I believe, however, that we need to stand fast in our position as parents and educators when it come to safety.  Electromagnetic fields are not healthy, despite the attempts by the government and development companies to downplay the affect they have on us.  Please, have the courage to limit the exposure your children have to these harmful fields.  We will all benefit from the calm, focused environment we can create by "unplugging". 

Espavo

http://www.ocweekly.com/2002-08-29/features/the-feng-shui-psychic/
Welcome, Welcome to "Energy in Action"!

In creating this blog, I am setting a broad intention to bring forth information about energy (in many forms) that is affecting our everyday lives.  This will include how energy affects not only human-beings but how our personal experiences are affecting the Unified Field of our planet and our universe.

I will be sharing scientific information, as well as, esoteric information and experiences.  The balance between the two resources will hopefully allow more readers to ponder and openly look at how they view and create the lives they live. 

Much of what will be written is finally becoming accepted in mainstream America.  This is exciting to me because it was only a few years ago when I talked about sun flares to people around me they would roll their eyes and give a chuckle behind my back.  Things are beginning to change.  Today, January 25, 2012 on Good Morning America, there was a segment on the current solar activity and how the blast causes disturbances in our planet's magnetic field.  The chucklers will not be chuckling as they hear predictions on how the solar flares may cause disturbances during the Super Bowl!!!

I look forward to your feed back and hope you will share your own experiences.  If you wish more information on some of the subjects, hopefully I can lead you to Internet links or published works.

Namaste,