Abusers unaware of victims' attack!

One of the most difficult challenges abused and battered women face, other than the courage to leave a bad relationship, is how to defend themselves.  Now there is a way to defend themselves and their children, and to change the behaviour of the abuser, as well.  The humorous part is, the aggressors don't even know what "hit" them!

The challenge began when a lecture attendee was afraid to burn candles, do clearings, or move furniture in her home, because her husband was suspicious that she was doing something against him any time she deviated from the patterns he had settled into.

The solution was simple, but very powerful.  She began bathing in lavender rich tub before retiring at night.  The result was 8-10 hours a night of relaxing, peaceful aromatherapy for the threatening, sleeping partner. 

A transformation in attitude and personality was noticed almost immediately.  In less than a week, the woman called to tell me her husband had never been as rational or soft spoken in their entire relationship!

Another success story is told by a concerned mother.  She was in LA from Arizona when I did a consultation in her sister's home in Ontario, CA.  She asked if there was anything she could do about the behaviour of her two sons that she was visiting.  She told of verbal and physical fighting that took place between her two grown boys every time she came to visit.  Several times, she said, they would end up in bloody fist fights or wrecked cars because of their tantrums.

A remedy that could be maintained and befitting two macho men was the difficult challenge.  Lavender air freshener seemed the best solution.  She purchased several cans on her way back to their apartment that evening and immediately started the "attack".  (Mothers are always cleaning their kids' houses when they go to visit so this was not something strange to them.)

Well, it worked!! Not only was there peace the rest of that visit, two years ago, but there has not been a problem since.  She leaves several cans in the bathroom before she leaves and replaces the empties when she returns.

Any good lavender soup, bath oil, lotion or spray should work.  I recommend THE BODY SHOP's  Divine Calm Relaxing Massage Oil.  http://www.thebodyshop-usa.com/body-products/massage-products/divine-calm-relaxing-massage-oil.aspx    It has lavender and an abundance of other scents that create peace and a wonderful night's sleep.  I have been using it with clients and personally for many years.  It is wonderful even after several changes in formula.  It is also great to use on ADD, ADDHD, Autistic children and other young ones that are empaths or just under a lot of stress.

May Peace be with each of you and your loved ones!!!